So this week I have to say I cannot do it. ... Wordless Wednesday that is... I got stuff to say and I need advice or your thoughts... PLEASE... i'm inviting this... ok here is the deal.
Little miss A *pictured above* is a tough girl... she bonks or gets ouchies and wants a kiss better but she doesn't cry and she is tough, high pain tolerance must come from daddy... She cried like two big crys when we pierced her ears... anyway... that's not what I want your advice for.
Lately if we say no, or talk to her in a stern voice, saying that's naughty or whatever... telling her she has to eat a chicken nugget BEFORE she gets ice cream.. stuff like that.. she will cry and run over immediatly and want a "HU" = translation hug...
ok, so on one hand.. it's cute, I wouldn't want to miss a HUG for anything.. however If i'm hugging her better 35times a day (seriously... and i'm not mean all day she is just sensitive) then is this going to cause a problem later.. I feel like she kinda needs to toughen up... is that rude she is nearly two (2.5weeks away... OH DEAR don't remind me)
What do you think? do I just enjoy the hugs no worries or should I tell her that I can't hug her better when she is naughty or what???
Any advice is welcome, even if I don't agree with it. LOL